When one finds out about the unplanned pregnancy the first thought that appears in the head is the abortion. It is not always easy to decide to perform an abortion for women, but our life sometimes brings us the reasons to do something and sometimes not to do something.
When you are thinking about the abortion the first you need to know is what possible abortion options exist. There are three items in the list - three options available. Let's start this list from the least preferable to the most preferable variant. From the oldest method to the most modern one.
So, the first option is Dilatation and Curettage (sometimes it also called Dilation and Curettage). The main and the only advantage of this abortion method is that it is performed on the late terms of pregnancy. But, there are a lot of disadvantages of it. First of all, you need to understand that D&C is full surgical operation, and it is performed in the hospital. During the operation the anaesthesia is used, but, nevertheless, the abortion procedure can be quite painful. After the procedure woman needs to stay in the hospital for some period of time depending on her conditions.
Also, exists some probability that operation can result in women's infertility.
The second available option is Vacuum Aspiration. It is more modern abortion method. The main concept of it is that under the ultrasound doctor inserts special tube in the woman's vagina and extracts the fertilized egg. The procedure is usually not painful and lasts over 20 minutes (including all the preparations). Oral painkillers can be used.
After the VA woman is free an can drive home by herself. The cost of vacuum aspiration in US clinics is up to $1,500.
The last but not the least abortion option is so-called Abortion Pill. Sometimes it is called medical or chemical abortion. This is the most modern method, it needs only one day and it not involves any invasion in woman's body. Nowadays it is considered as best method and recommended to all the women that want to make pregnancy termination.
From 8 am to lunch here we had abortions. In the early '80s I came here with her older sister. There just has not been listening to stories while standing in line in the lobby! The women asked each other, "but it hurt?" and moving by turns, as if by some murderous conveyor.
Sister was discharged three days later, it was dark and closed. Only a year later, she was able to tell what was happening on the other side of the door. "We stood barefoot on the cold tile in the dressing room and silently shook my turn ... When I came in, I gave way under his feet in a large hall in ryadochek were three chairs at them women - Someone moaned softly, someone.. shouting loudly from time to time shouting at patients, doctors did their work "We had to yell when fucked, and here lie down and shut up!" -.. chastised thick aunt doctor woman who was screaming in pain I quietly lay down on the chair. I put on a face of the ether mask. to sense there was no on it, I'm just breathless, at the same time feel each movement of iron tools inside, heard every word. I was so unbearably bad psychologically, that physical pain seemed even deliverance. An old nurse helping I come down from the chair and holding the diaper, sighed: "Come, poor thing, neatly. You are on them (doctors) not to be angry, they work hard: the sin-a per capita charge. But there are some women who term their secret, only the table it appears that the baby already handles-legs there. "In the House many" seasoned "woman then told that it was necessary to bribe, and even abortion for quality anesthesia" for profit "it is for educational purposes - to give birth to more than If there is hell on earth, it is here, on the street Stakhanov, I thought then.".
Similar horror stories you can tell a lot of women, "survivors of sex in the Soviet times." I have a friend who did 15 abortions. At my exclamation: "Yes, better sterilization or complete refusal to have sex!" she said calmly: "What was done in the early '80s a good birth control pills were not: import - a rarity on the Soviet - side effects Spiral contraindicated from her bleeding were, and condoms can not always be bought, and. did not like them, my husband, a Caucasian. There remained only a candle and the calendar method, but sometimes it brings. "
The best years of our mothers and grandmothers comes at a time when condoms are included in the category of deficient products and contraceptives were still not very reliable and not very useful. the maturity test.
The modern generation of a wide range of excellent, reliable contraceptives, which gently affect the female body and do not leave any consequences, including - pregnancy. But then the question arises: where 26 thousand 858 voluntary abortions are done every year in the country for up to 12 weeks.?
Talking once with a friend, I asked how he would have done in a situation where a girl that had sex (no more), became pregnant. "Would you marry her?". "Of course not. But do abortion would not have, because it is not good. Would have to pay child support, helping as much as possible." "That's it, as far as possible, - I answered him -. Of course, life itself would not break, and the girl and she shall remain alone with their fears, humiliations and great responsibility?" Noble, do not say anything.
You do not pay attention to the fact that among the most ardent opponents of abortion more than men? In neighboring Russia in the summer of the bill was submitted to the Duma, in which a married woman who chooses to terminate a pregnancy should obtain the written consent of her husband. They say that men in this respect, too, there are certain not quite right last, because the woman herself does not know how to get pregnant. So decide to be a child or not, should both. This is probably correct, but only if an abortion is not subject to manipulation.
In the meantime, only a woman can decide to give birth to her or not. She was given a great, almost divine right - make the right choice. Only here the level of the mind, some very not up to the level of maturity of the body. Therefore, in dealing with this serious problem is often heard: "My stomach that I want, I do!"
Typical situations when women left and right use the pregnancy as a tool for registering relationships. Unborn child becomes a weapon in the struggle of women to men: "If you do not get married, to have an abortion!"
Worse, if the woman herself is looking for reasons for abortion. Because this man is not satisfied as a husband and father of her children: not the status undervalued work, not at home in Drozdy, etc. Or she suddenly learned that a loved one assigned to building trust in Beshenkovichi district, and there it is not necessary ... Another option - a pregnancy is contrary to the business plan. And she is afraid of stretch marks on the body after breast feeding lose her maiden form. Yes, there still is little reason?
I do not like extremes such as "the right to abortion - a woman's right to her body" or "come to your senses, Judgment Day is near!". I am not a supporter of abortion, as, indeed, and a ban on them. I support the idea to reduce their number to a minimum in good faith, that these operations were carried out only for health indicators such as the amputation of hands or feet, when other ways to save human life is impossible. And I for a little bit so we moved the focus and say no more about that abortion - it is bad, and that the children - it is good.